This afternoon, we caught up on a couple episodes of Julie’s Library.
It’s been a favorite podcast of ours since early in the pandemic, and our Bug especially enjoys the stories picked out by Julie Andrews.
The Bug is big into superpowers right now (though, being a realist, he has decided he no longer wants to grow up to be a superhero. He instead wants to be an astronaut.)
Before the Story
Before listening, we had discussed what superpowers we would like to have. The Bug said flying, super hearing and transforming into a dinosaur.
I said I’d like to have the superpower of being able to speak every language in the world.
(That’s been one of my three wishes since childhood–the other two being to read every language in the world and write every language in the world.)
While the story was a bit too obviously trying to teach a lesson, it was enjoyable. The author’s tone is playful and humorous, which softens the preachy nature of the narrative.
After listening, we talked about what superpowers we think we actually have.
The Bug wasn’t too engaged in this part of the activity. His idea of superpowers is still very much tied to Marvel and DC comics.
I think I know what his superpower is, though. It’s listening.
He said he wanted super hearing for a superpower, but he’s already got super listening.
The guy is an incredible listener. He’s inherited it both from his father and from my mother (it seems to have skipped me).
He also remembers. It has sometimes surprised me the things he retains and repeats.
For this reason, he’s merciless when it comes to inconsistencies. But he’ll also remember details of anecdotes, confidences and silly jokes.
Though sometimes it doesn’t seem like it, the kid really pays attention when you talk to him.
His great listening, combined with his innate kindness and empathy, make him a very thoughtful, sweet boy.
So What’s Mine?
Since he wasn’t super into the discussion, the Bug walked away without showing the least interest in discussing my superpower.
Sure, he’s a good listener, but he’s also five and sometimes just doesn’t give a crap.
I’ve been thinking about it, though. I think my superpower is communicating.
I’m gifted at being able to clearly communicate any message either face to face, over the phone, and in writing (and sometimes non-verbally with my comically expressive face). It has served me well over the years.
I’ve known about this gift for a long time. Hell, I speak four languages and can communicate effectively in all four of them (even German!).
The Question Is…
…What the heck do I DO with this superpower??